Harmonious Love

Today’s Reading: 1 Corinthians 11 & 12

Paul continues the topic of relationships in the church in 1 Corinthians chapter 11. He speaks of the roles men and women play within the church — how the head of every woman is man, the head of every man is Christ, and the head of Christ is God (1 Corinthians 11:3). But he clarifies that we ALL are dependent on each other and should recognize our need for one another. Our relationships should be described as harmonious.

WE NEED EACH OTHER!

But among the Lord’s people, women are not independent of men, and men are not independent of women. For although the first woman came from man, every other man was born from a woman, and everything comes from God. — 1 Corinthians 11:11-12

So, if love and concern for others is what strengthens the church and if we all need each other, then consider Paul’s questions: Why are there divisions among you when you meet as a church? Why is there more harm than good coming out of your time together? (1 Corin. 11:17-18)

WE ARE THE BODY OF CHRIST.

The Holy Spirit gives each one of us special abilities or spiritual gifts. These spiritual gifts are given so that we can help each other, not so we can think we are more or less important than someone else in the body of Christ. We are better together because of the diversity of our strengths and gifts. Paul did a wonderful job of explaining all of this to the believers in Corinth and to us today.

A spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each other. To one person the Spirit gives the ability to give wise advice; to another the same Spirit gives a message of special knowledge. The same Spirit gives great faith to another, and to someone else the one Spirit gives the gift of healing. He gives one person the power to perform miracles, and another the ability to prophesy. He gives someone else the ability to discern whether a message is from the Spirit of God or from another spirit. Still another person is given the ability to speak in unknown languages, while another is given the ability to speak to interpret what is being said. It is the one and only Spirit who distributes all these gifts. He alone decides which gift each person should have. – 1 Corinthians 12:7-11

EACH OF US HAS BEEN GIVEN A GIFT.

Just like the human body is made up of many parts, so is the body of Christ. We all play unique roles; each of us has an important role to play. Just like the whole body is affected when a nerve is pinched in the back or an ankle is sprained, so the body of Christ limps along when everyone is not playing the unique role for which God created them.

But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it. How strange a body would be if it had only one part! Yes, there are many parts, but only one body. The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.”

In fact, some parts of the body that seem weakest and least important are actually the most necessary. And the parts we regard as less honorable are those we clothe with the greatest care. So we carefully protect those parts that should not be seen, while the more honorable parts do not require this special care. So God has put the body together such that extra honor and care are given to those parts that have less dignity. This makes for harmony among the members, so that all the members care for each other. If one part suffers, all the parts suffer with it, and if one part is honored, all the parts are glad… – 1 Corinthians 12:18-26

Lord, forgive us for the divisions that creep into our relationships with other believers, and for the quarreling that distracts us from what you have called us to do. Lord, fill our hearts with your love so that we may love each other unselfishly. Help us to see that we need each other and that you are glorified when we all function together as the body of Christ. Show us the way of life that is best of all – to love each other with the kind of love that will last forever (1 Corinthians 13:8).

Lord, reveal to me any ways in which I have wronged my brother or sister in Christ. I want to be sensitive to your Spirit’s leading if there is a conversation I need to have or an apology I need to make. Give me the courage to step into uncomfortable conversations and take the next steps towards restoring relationships. Amen.

MAY LOVE BE OUR HIGHEST GOAL TODAY!

You should earnestly desire the most helpful gifts. But now let me show you a way of life (LOVE) that is best of all. — 1 Corinthians 12:31